Some of you are going to jump on me as am only looking at it from a man side.I know i know woman also cheat but will get there.
Cheating is at its peek at the time we living in.We all know its bad,wrong and hurtful yet we get people who still practise it.We all know that there is an epidemic of Aids and HIV but for some reason people think they are immune.
To be cheated on is the most hurtful thing and worst part is that no matter how much the partner that cheated pleads for help the hurt party will never recover that's a fact.
Men are the most cheaters that is a proven fact judging by how many woman are bitter and angry.Out of 10 woman 8 of them have been cheated on by their husband or boyfriend whether they know it or not.It seems man use cheating as a disability crying out when they are caught with excuses such as"i could not help it","she seduced me","You were not doing the **** style with me in bed"All these excuse are not valid and woman can easily use them too.
Society is such a hypocrite.When a man cheats he is crowned a man amongst men but when he is dying of HIV/Aids the same society laughs at him.
Cheating can break a man.Its can leave you with nothing read Proverbs Chapter 5 from verse 1.You can be a wealth man with a wife or girlfriend and cheat with anything that walks make babies all over but in due time those woman you were cheating with outside will come into your life demanding money to raise the kids you have outside.You will find these woman making trouble in your life up to a point your wife will leave you.Woman who are willing to cheat with you are evil as when they are scorned and relationship does not go their way they will go out of their way to destroy you.
Look at some famous wealthy men who have be broken by cheating.
1.Arnold Schwarzenegger.he has to loose half of his wealth to his soon to be ex wife.The mistress is also queuing for her child.People will never respect him.His dignity down the drain.
2.Tiger Woods he had it all but a few rounds in a hotel is all it took for tiger to loose half of his wealth to ex wife Erin.Some of the mistress were even paid to keep quite as they were more.
3.Bill Clinton stepped down as the president of the USA just for a few rounds with Monica Lewinsky.
4.Thinus Crous paid too much attention on Ms Mbau that he did not even see his company going down.Now people have no desire to help him nor do business with him a he is known as a cheating husband.
After such an ordeal society has no respect for you.You have lost your credibility as a important man in society.You are looked down upon and your a broke.
Well the list goes on but i hope i have opened eyes to all those cheating brothers.One day it might be you when that child's from a mistress rings a door bell and your life with your wife is turned up side down.
No matter how one defines cheating,cheating will always be cheating.Yes,cheating can break man,may be we should take it further by saying cheating can break anyone!We know men use 1-10 scale to cheat,while women use Six Sixes scale to cheat, but at the end,they cheat..! Ok,lets take another angle...
ReplyDeleteMaybe it is correct to say,people cheat(for various reasons),people have cheated, and people will always cheat(sorry for those who are not cheating,who have never cheated,or who will not cheat)simply because we are imperfect,however we cant use that as an excuse to cheat.NO!
You see the society we are living in has painted and decorated cheating as a normal way of life,ie,nothing wrong with cheating, and if So and So cheat,why cant i do it.You see that mentality?The epidemic monster,HIV/AIDS,is a testimony of cheating, and in the minds of other people this HIV/AIDS doesn't exist,yes they might know or expected to know,but NO,they parry that idea off, and they will tell you that is an allegory..they will give thousands nonsense reasons to justify their act to mask the truth.The people who cheat,dont want to be cheated..alas!
The repercussions of cheating is as bitter as an aloe...you can assay your own opinion how you will feel..eish.Cheating is not ayoba..
Cheating at any form,doesnt make me(us/we) man,it shows that we are weak.
-It shows that we are not clever, infact stupid.
-It shows that we lack morals
-It shows we dont have respect for other people,infact we dont even respect ourselves..
You see, a person who cheats can:
-lie
-bribe
-commit corruption
-kill
Lastly,the person who cheats,is actually cheating him/her self..!
Cheating Cheating Cheating... why do people out there even entertain the tought of cheating? why cant some people be satisfied with what they have and yes sorry brothers but really how does cheating benefit you i mean honestly its sooo expensive to cheat, your jezzabels dries you out, they have ridiculous demands and you forever dishing out for couple of steamy meaningless sex haai i call it STUPIDITY at its best.Why will you want to leave your caring, sweet, loving, hard-working, yes sure nagging out of unconditional love, wife/partner for some girl who doesnt even know what a payslip is? while you think "you're the man" and that you got game and playing the field bear in mind that you're best friend might be moving-in on your terrritory playing the field with that precious jewel of yours you chose to cheat on with some little girl who cant even bath properly.
ReplyDeleteCheating is never good and really there is no reason for anyone to cheat no matter how much Maftown wants to justify it. some women will say they cheat cause they felt were neglected while men will say they did it cause apparently they are "men" as if...humans should leave cheating to wild animals. Remember the GOLDEN RULE "Do Unto Others" Matthew 7:12
@Mel
ReplyDeleteYou are correct my dear, and i have to give you 3 full points, and i regret i have to give you zero on one point,i.e ....."no matter how much Maftown wants to justify it".....
You didn't score a point on that one dear,ok?I hesitate to concur your motion on that point,on the grounds that,i didnt give a cheating a walk at any time.If you peruse my take on that point, i actually poured a cold water on the point, and my submission was that,people cheat for various reasons, and most of the times the reasons they put on the table are always dont have grounds.I also indicated the tests which are used by both men and woman to advance that silly act.
Your last paragraph,the first sentence,before the one i qouted above,you brilliantly put a synopsis what i already raised, and i like it the way you put it..."cheating is never good and there is no reasons why ...(a person has to cheat)..." Yes, no matter how society gives a cheating a gospel chorus,we know for a fact that,cheating is bad, and unacceptible..! Period.
The history has shown and attested that, and Lady88 has indicated a few prominent people who have signed their names in the "book of legends",you know why?The society has presented the "book" infront of them.I want to reiterate,the GOLDEN RULE, you mentioned..DO unto others as you would want them to do to you..So true indeed!
Hello,
ReplyDeleteThank you very much for the article. Cheaters are selfish people who use lame excuses to try and justify their selfish behaviour.
I would just like to point out that some of your exemples are factually incorrect. Bill Clinton never had to resign as the US president,even though he was investigated, he completed his 2 full terms in office. Same with Tiger's divorce settlement, Elin got much less than half of his money.
Otherwise ,keep up the good work, I like this blog :)
@Anonymous Thank you for the Facts.
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